Working with a Men’s Sex Counsellor
Thinking about getting an outside perspective on your sex life or sexuality, but feel unsure if you can talk about something so personal?
It's often assumed men are "simple" when it comes to sex and sexuality. We’re not. We struggle with it like everyone else.
Society teaches – even pressures – men to believe they should be in control at all times, and sexual encounters are no different. Rather than helping us build healthy relationships, the result is often issues such as unexpressed anxiety, confusion and even physical symptoms like erectile dysfunction.
Men are also taught to suppress their emotions, making it difficult to communicate openly about their desires and needs, leading to frustration and resentment with partners.
By engaging in tailored, online sex therapy for men, you can work through your unspoken thoughts and feelings in a safe, convenient and constructive space.
Many things could be impacting your sex life, including:
External stressors like work and family
Ongoing mental health issues like anxiety, depression and grief
Low self esteem and/or confidence
Concerns or discoveries about your sexual orientation and preferences
Trauma history
Ongoing relationship problems such as communication or changing interests that aren't being dealt with effectively.
For some men, these issues can be difficult to deal with. The good news is there are ways to overcome them with sex counselling for men.
By learning to communicate openly and exploring their own sexuality in a safe and supportive environment, men can begin to enjoy a more fulfilling and satisfying sex life.
Strong Space Counselling recognises the nuances of these difficulties. With male sexual therapy, we aim to provide a confidential and judgement-free space for men to explore whatever issues present for them.
Could Seeing a Sex Therapist for Men Benefit You?
Regardless of societal pressures, issues relating to sex and sexuality are tough to talk about. They can be embarrassing, confusing and frustrating.
Sometimes, we're not even conscious of the problem to be able to fix it!
Perhaps you have been feeling like you can't keep going this way, and something has to change.
Do you feel your behaviours, feelings, and thoughts are becoming problematic for you or your loved ones?
These are signs you might benefit from male sexual therapy.
Does this sound like you?
Have you been avoiding sex with your partner lately?
Do you feel like managing your sex life is simply too complicated and stressful?
Are you afraid of how you’ll perform in bed?
Are you worried your partner will be disappointed in you?
Do you feel like your porn use is out of control?
Have you started thinking about sexual relationships outside of your primary partner?
Has your partner asked you to get help when you don't think you need to?
Are you tired of feeling like there's something wrong with you?
Amongst the confusion, shame and guilt, have you been thinking:
I'm a terrible person for feeling this way
There is something wrong with me
I don't want to feel this way, but I don't know how to stop
Why can't I fix this on my own? It's too embarrassing to talk about
I don't understand why this is a big deal to my partner. I don’t see it as a problem, so neither should they
I don't want to go to men’s sex counselling, that's for ‘crazy' people
I don't want to air my dirty laundry to a stranger.
It’s okay to be hesitant. We understand it can be difficult to talk about these challenging topics with a sex therapist for men.
That’s why we offer a free 15-minute consultation call. This way, you can have a quick, obligation-free chat with us before committing to a full session of sex counselling for men.
WHY SEEK SUPPORT FROM A SEXUAL THERAPIST FOR MEN?
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Sex is a complex and often misunderstood topic. In our society, sex and intimacy is simply not talked about, taught or normalised enough, especially with men.
There is no right way to have sex. Pleasure and intimacy vary for everyone.
One of the best ways to learn more about sex is to talk openly and honestly with your partner(s). Discussing your desires, experiences, and concerns helps to foster a more enjoyable and satisfying sexual relationship.
Seeking credible sources of information such as books, websites, or workshops can also be helpful in expanding sexual understanding. The most important thing is approaching it with an open mind and willingness to learn.
Men’s sex counselling can help you with your understanding of sex and your ability to discuss it with your partner(s). With this, you’ll create a richer and more fulfilling sexual experience.
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It's important to talk about sex, sexuality and intimacy openly and without shame or fear. Issues around sex and sexuality can often be seen as taboo or embarrassing. You might find yourself lacking a safe space to talk about them, which a sex therapist for men can assist with.
If you’re having problems with sexual performance or intimacy, there could be a number of underlying causes, such as past experiences, cultural influences or even biology.
By exploring the root cause of your issue in men’s sex counselling, we can find a way to address and resolve it. This may involve seeking further professional help, supporting you to talk to loved ones or making you feel comfortable enough to explore your sexuality through self-discovery.
Whatever path you choose, male sexual therapy can support you every step of the way.
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For most people, sex is an important part of their lives. It can be a source of physical pleasure, emotional intimacy and even spiritual connection.
Cultivating a deeper sexual connection is not always easy. Individuals and couples need to be open to new experiences and willing to experiment.
It also means you need to be honest about what you want and need from your partner.
When you have a deeper sexual connection, you can explore new levels of intimacy and satisfaction. In having a deeper sexual connection, you’ll likely find your relationship is stronger and more fulfilling, too.
So, if you're looking to take your sex life to the next level, a men’s sex counsellor can support you with the right tools to comfortably discuss your sexual desires with your intimate partner(s), leading to a deeper sexual connection for them and you.
Please note a men’s sex counsellor should not:
Choose sides of sexual orientation or attempt to convince clients to do anything
Undress themselves or ask anyone else to undress
Offer or solicit sexual relations or instruct sexual relations.
HOW SEX THERAPY HELPS MEN
Provides a compassionate, judgement-free space for men to explore their emotions and difficulties
Helps men understand their sexuality and how it’s affecting their lives
A sex therapist offers men support in managing addictions and recovering from infidelity
Guides men through exploring their own body and sexual desires
Sexual counselling can be a safe space for men to discuss fertility issues and treatments
Encourages men to communicate with partners about their sexual preferences
Provides resources and referrals for comprehensive sex education
Sex therapy helps men develop coping strategies and improves self-esteem.
WHO SEEKS SEXUAL COUNSELLING FOR MEN?
Male sex counselling services can prove beneficial for a range of issues, helping men who are:
Struggling to perform sexually
Engaged in problematic, risky and unhealthy sexual patterns and don't know how to stop
Finding it difficult to communicate their sexual needs and desires to their partner(s)
Feeling their porn consumption is becoming problematic
Coming to terms or grappling with their sexuality and sexual preferences
Interested in or have relationships with people interested in exploring non-traditional sexual relationships (ethical non-monogamy/open/polyamorous/BDSM/kink etc.).
Get Started with Male Sexual Therapy Services in Australia
If you're struggling to communicate your sexual needs and desires or you're engaged in risky sexual patterns, online male sexual therapy services can help.
Our experienced and compassionate men’s sexual counsellors provide support to help you explore your sexuality and find a path to healthy and fulfilling sexual relationships.
Contact us today to book an appointment.